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You found this amazing guy. When you look into his eyes, you just know you want him. His smile, his charm, his everything just makes your heart race. You don’t know if he feels the same. But what you do know is that you want to make him fall in love with you.
Sounds familiar?
Of course, it does! We’ve all been there. And we’re here to help you. With these tips and tricks, it will be easy for you to make this man of your dreams become the man of your reality.
1. Put yourself out there
Get noticed by him! Make sure you are in his line of vision so he can see you. Dress up a little bit more when you know you will run into him. You want to capture his attention and make him take notice of you.
This, of course, applies even more if the two of you didn’t even have a date yet, and he doesn’t know that you’re interested. Maybe he’s in your class, or you see him at the gym. Find out his schedule and try to be where he is going to be. And when you do so, look the best possible!
2. Talk to him
Don’t be afraid to start up a conversation with him! It doesn’t have to be about anything deep or serious. Just talk about the weather, current events, or even something as simple as how his day is going. Make it seem like it’s just simple small talk.
You want to gauge his interest and see if he wants to talk to you too. If the conversation starts flowing easily, then that’s a good sign! Take the opportunity to find out more about him. But be careful not to ask too many questions, or else you might seem like you’re interrogating him.
3. Be confident
Confidence is key! You want to show him that you’re a strong and independent woman. He needs to see that you’re someone who can take care of yourself and that you’re not just some damsel in distress.
This doesn’t mean, however, that you should try to act like someone you’re not. Be genuine and authentic. The most important thing is to just be yourself and show that you know your worth!
And if you’re now thinking: “But I’m not confident at all!”, then that’s okay too. Just fake it till you make it. Sometimes all it takes is to act like you’re confident, and eventually, you will become confident.
A great tip is to make eye contact and hold it. This will show him that you’re not afraid to look into his eyes and that you’re confident in yourself.
4. Make him laugh
Humor is always a plus! Laughter is the way to a man’s heart! They say that men are attracted to women who can make them laugh. So if you can make him laugh, then that’s already a good start! It shows that you’re fun and easy to be around. Who wouldn’t want that?
But of course, don’t force it. If you’re not naturally funny, then don’t try to be someone you’re not. Just be yourself and let your own personality shine through.
5. Find common interests
One of the best ways to make someone fall in love with you is by finding things that the two of you have in common. This creates a connection and a bond between the two of you. It gives you something to talk about and makes the relationship stronger.
So if you’re interested in this guy, try to find out what his interests are. Is he into sports? Music? Movies? Books? Find out what he likes and see if you have the same taste or if you can at least appreciate what he likes.
6. Be supportive
Be his tower of strength. Sometimes, people just need someone to be there for them. And you can be that person for him. Be supportive and understanding, especially during his tough times.
When he’s down or doesn’t believe in himself, be the one to lift him up. Show him that you believe in him and that you’ll be there for him no matter what. This will definitely make him fall more deeply in love with you.
This doesn’t mean, however, that you should always agree with everything he says or does. You can still have your own opinion. In fact, you should have!
7. Show him what you’re made of
One of the best ways to make a guy fall in love with you is by showing him what you’re made of. He needs to see that you’re strong, capable, and resilient. You want to show him that you’re not just some delicate flower that wilts at the first sign of trouble.
This doesn’t mean that you have to act tough all the time. You can still be feminine and delicate. Just don’t be afraid to show your strength when the situation calls for it.
8. Be independent
Men love independent indiviuals! They’re attracted to people who are capable of taking care of themselves and don’t need a man to do everything for them.
So if you want to make a guy fall in love with you, then you need to show him that you’re independent. You should be able to take care of yourself and not rely on him for everything.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that you should never ask for help or that you should always do everything on your own. It’s okay to ask for help sometimes or to lean on him during tough times. Just don’t do it all the time.
9. Be a good listener
Everbody likes people who know how to listen. They want someone they can talk to and who will actually listen to what they have to say. Most people hate nothing more than others who are so self-centered that they only want to talk about themselves.
So if you want to make a guy fall in love with you, then be a good listener. Listen to what he has to say and actually engage in the conversation. Don’t just wait for your turn to talk.
This doesn’t mean that you should never talk about yourself. Just don’t make it all about you all the time.
And you know what? If you listen, it will be easier for you to tell if he has strong feelings for you! What are these signs, though? Well, here’s the answer!
10. Let yourself be vulnerable
One of the best ways to make a guy fall in love with you is by letting yourself be vulnerable. This means being open and honest with him about your feelings and sharing your thoughts and emotions with him. Don’t build an impenetrable wall around yourself.
It can be scary to let yourself be vulnerable. You might worry that he’ll take advantage of you or that he’ll think less of you if he knows your true feelings. But the reality is that most guys will appreciate your honesty and openness. And if he loves you, then he’ll accept you for who you are, flaws and all.
So there you have it! These are just some of the things you can do to make a guy fall in love with you. Just remember to be yourself and to never change who you are just to please someone else. If a guy doesn’t love you for who you are, then he’s not worth your time.
New guides for love and dating: Books every woman should read
Navigating the world of dating and relationships as a woman can be tough. There are so many different expectations and standards to uphold, and it can be difficult to know where to turn for advice. If you're looking for some guidance, check out this list of books about relationships and dating for women.
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- The Awakened Woman's Guide to Everlasting Love
Janet Smith
Janet Smith is a freelance writer who writes about psychology, relationships, and dating. She has always been interested in understanding the human brain and how it affects our …
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